Monthly Archives: January 2024

Getting out of my rut

Cold snowy walk

As with the rest of the nation, we’ve been in a deep freeze here in the Midwest.  This is especially annoying after the balmy holiday season at the end of December.  My husband spends much of his time cutting and splitting firewood, moving wood, throwing it in the basement, feeding the impossible iron beast to keep us toasty at night.  Yes, we have a gas furnace but he just sees dollar signs floating out the chimney when we turn it on.

I have spent most of my time moving between the house and my studio.  Feed the birds, take out the trash, take the dog for a short walk rather than our usual ramble.  Dang, that icy wind blows right through several layers of clothing, coats and socks.  Let’s just say, I’m happy to hole up in the house with a book, take a nap, and veg out. 

But…I did make one of my goals this year (see recent post about goals and resolutions) to attend at least one live performance a month, and visit one gallery or museum monthly, too.  This isn’t too hard to accomplish, even in this rural area.  There is always something to do.

This weekend I had tickets to attend a backstage performance by Julian Gargiulo, a talented world-class pianist with an amazing sense of humor.  He is also known as the Pianist with the Hair.  A look at his photos will explain that description.  The Backstage series is the smallest one at about 100 seats and the audience sits onstage with the artists.  Very intimate and great for showing off the marvelous Boesendorfer Imperial Grand piano.  We always try to have at least one pianist per year and often more.

When I was Director of the Jasper Arts Center (now retired), it was my job to present candidates for performances to the entertainment committee, keeping in mind our budget and a diversity of performers for our audience.  One way I did that was to attend the big arts presenters’ conference in New York every January.  Yes, January. Here I met with hundreds of agents and representatives for various performing artists.  Obviously the big names didn’t do showcases, but many of the other performers did.  Most showcases were held right in the mid-town Hilton but others were scattered throughout the city.  This was an exhausting week with some events starting at breakfast and many running past midnight.  I would take my scheduling book, circle the performers I was interested in learning more about, and make appointments with their booking agents.  Sometimes I would need tickets to certain showcases so I would have to arrange for those, too. 

Julian Gargiulo performing at Carnegie Hall

I was very fortunate that Julian’s agent invited me to attend his performance at Carnegie Hall which is just blocks from the hotel.  When I saw him perform, he was so talented but extremely personable, too.  I met him later at the agent’s booth.  We weren’t able to get him for the following season, but a few seasons later, we booked him for our stage as well as some educational performances for the schools. 

So this weekend I got out of my snug little huddle on the sofa and dragged myself into the arts center to see Julian for the third time. He’s added more to his performance, including a new digital real-time view of his keyboard work.  Telling amusing stories about his kids and introducing his father who was accompanying him on this tour. I bought a new CD after the show and asked for a photo.  He actually remembered me!  Which was so nice of him to say.  I’ve been retired from the performing arts business for several years now, but I’m still a huge fan and supporter.  Despite the dreadfully cold weather, I am so glad that I made the effort to get out for some live entertainment.  It’s just too easy to remain a slug at home.  I hope you all can get out to support the arts in your area.  There is probably much more going on than you realize. You don’t know what you’re missing.

http://www.pianistwiththehair.com/ 

Leo is back home

Out for a brisk stroll.

About two thirds of all American households have at least one pet.  We have had many and various pets over the years, often more than one at a time.  Dogs, cats, a bird, chickens, fish, frogs and toads,  snakes, tortoises, snails, crabs, and those are just those I can remember off hand.  Some only stay awhile but some have lived here for years, like our previous cat who lived to age twenty-two.  And she was an outdoor cat, too. Currently we have two pets, a lively border collie (high energy, very smart but also stubborn), and Leo the cat who has appeared in previous postings.

Leo was a gift from my son who had a litter of strays delivered in the window well of his house.  I wasn’t really interested in another pet at the time, but he’s definitely grown on us.  He’s an indoor/outdoor cat and has grown to be a pretty big boy from the tiny kitten we adopted.  He sleeps all day in his special spot and prowls around outdoors all night.  And he’s always ready to explore his food bowl but won’t touch any people food or live prey.  All food must come from a box or a can.  A teense spoiled but really, how much can one cat eat?

Earlier this week I noticed that he didn’t seem his usual self.  He was slinking around the house, hiding under the furniture.  Just acting different. Then he began yowling.  So I took him to the vet and they quickly diagnosed him with a UTI, in this case, crystals forming in the bladder.  That’s a little bit personal but I don’t think he’ll read this.  A little minor surgery and a few days at the vet’s for some care.  I picked him up yesterday with heavy rain and wind gusts heading our way.  He yowled all the way home. 

It’s funny how quiet and empty the house felt with one little fur boy absent.  Even my husband noticed the difference.  Those of you who have pets know what a hole they leave when they’re not around.

Anyway, everything seems to be on the mend.  Although Leo definitely does not like the new food that was prescribed. He’s been outside a few times but with the artic air rolling in, seems content to sleep in the warm cellar (or on my lap). 

So that’s what is happening on the home front here in the deep freeze.  Hug your pets for me.  We all could use a little TLC now and again.

Leo taking center stage in the middle of the living room.

Too many books!

So how are those new year’s resolutions working out for you?  How did you do with keeping them last year?

Statistics show that about 1/3 of all adults in the US make resolutions.  Statistics also show that 23% will give up their resolutions after the first week.  And only 8% will keep them all year.  I think I read that bit last year which may have influenced my list of resolutions that I made this year.

Actually, I prefer to call them goals.  That sounds like something to aim for, not just I resolve to do such and such this year. Maybe that’s splitting hairs but whatever works, I always say.

Unfortunately, as with most people, I tend to want to fix everything at the same time.  Lose weight, get more exercise, eat better, etc.  We all know how that goes. I find better results if I stick with fewer goals than to tackle too many at once. 

One of my goals last year was to not buy any books.  That doesn’t make the top ten in resolutions, but is certainly needs consideration in my case.  I have a wide range of interests and love books of all kinds.  But…they do take up a good amount of room.  And they’re heavy, very heavy if you have to move. Also, they’re visible proof of where I spend my money.  New clothes?  Nah.  New books?  Oh, yes, please! 

Most of the books that I buy are non-fiction.  I always justify my purchases in that they are actually reference materials, I can learn something from them, I might need to know this stuff later.  What if the internet goes down and I’m left with only my personal library?  You can recognize a true addict by the excuses they make.  I even buy a lot of used books, many times for such low prices that I can’t pass up the good deal.  (See what I mean?)

So, I’m mostly proud to say that I stuck with my goal to not buy any books last year.  At least until July when I had a little melt down when I took my granddaughter to the bookstore.  That doesn’t mean that I didn’t read; I just resisted buying the books.  I’m fortunate that I have a fairly good library system which supports my reading habit.  Also, I’ve made very good use of the two electronic systems that they belong to where I can borrow nearly anything from books to music, videos to movies.  Too much, actually.

But back to the no buying book resolution, er, umm, goal.  I got back on the wagon…mostly.  I did have a few slip-ups with buying some used books online.  Although I’m very proud to report that I went into the local bookstore to shop for Christmas presents for others and did NOT buy a single book for myself.  That wouldn’t have happened in the previous years.  Magazines don’t count, do they? 

So how did you do with your resolutions last year?  I did manage to add more fruits and veggies to my diet.  And walked more (with the help of the dog.)  Cleaned out a few attics but not all of them.  Some of the other goals are being recycled for 2024.  No sense in getting crazy about improvements, is there?  We’ll just see what I can stick with this year. I haven’t given up ice cream yet.