
A couple of weeks ago I jokingly claimed that people around here had to keep their car doors locked in the summer to prevent good-intentioned neighbors from leaving bags of zucchini in them. Zucchini are prolific, in case you don’t know.
But a few days later, I found myself foisting off some fresh-picked tomatoes on a visiting neighbor. He wasn’t unhappy about it as he doesn’t have a garden this year, but it gave me pause. This is what gardeners do. What we love to do, i.e., share our bounty. Although our garden area is much reduced this year, I still love to share.
A few years ago, I did a painting of my grandmother who so generously shared her garden bounty, too. You never left her house empty-handed.

The painting depicts her holding an armful of, what? Probably turnips but it could have been tomatoes or peppers or just about anything. The original photo was black and white. The dress was typical summer attire, homemade with no pattern. She just laid out an old dress on the fabric and cut around it. Something I would never be confident enough to try, but grandma worked in an underwear factory during WWII, cutting out fifty layers of long johns at a time. A simple housedress could be whipped up in no time. On her Singer peddle sewing machine. Which I now use as a bedside table. Memories.
Anyway, if someone offers you an armful of fresh garden produce this summer, take it. Even if you don’t like turnips, you’ll be perpetuating the nearly lost act of sharing what we have with fellow human beings. It’s worth reminding ourselves that caring for others reflects well on all of us eventually.
I love the painting, and I love the theme.
When I lived in the tropics, we learned the following lesson. Cultures in the tropics tend to have a lot more emphasis on sharing whatever you have. One reason is that it’s so hard to preserve food there. If you get some game or slaughter a hog or something like that, you’d better feed it to all your neighbors or it will spoil. Also, different fruit trees are producing all year round. There is no winter, so there is never a need to stock up. But this attitude carries over into everything, and you are expected not to “hoard” anything, not LPG gas, not money. If you have a windfall, throw a party.
Anyway, now I’m living in temperate climes, but I sure hope somebody gives me some tomatoes!
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Very good observations, Jennifer. I’ve found the same to be true. The poorer people often seem to be the most generous in sharing their time, money, and goods. Well, we’re not harvesting tomatoes in five gallon buckets as we were a few years ago, but we should have enough for the winter. Too bad you’re so far away.
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Haha I have someone in mind for a tomato source! 😉 We’ll see.
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