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Too many books!

So how are those new year’s resolutions working out for you?  How did you do with keeping them last year?

Statistics show that about 1/3 of all adults in the US make resolutions.  Statistics also show that 23% will give up their resolutions after the first week.  And only 8% will keep them all year.  I think I read that bit last year which may have influenced my list of resolutions that I made this year.

Actually, I prefer to call them goals.  That sounds like something to aim for, not just I resolve to do such and such this year. Maybe that’s splitting hairs but whatever works, I always say.

Unfortunately, as with most people, I tend to want to fix everything at the same time.  Lose weight, get more exercise, eat better, etc.  We all know how that goes. I find better results if I stick with fewer goals than to tackle too many at once. 

One of my goals last year was to not buy any books.  That doesn’t make the top ten in resolutions, but is certainly needs consideration in my case.  I have a wide range of interests and love books of all kinds.  But…they do take up a good amount of room.  And they’re heavy, very heavy if you have to move. Also, they’re visible proof of where I spend my money.  New clothes?  Nah.  New books?  Oh, yes, please! 

Most of the books that I buy are non-fiction.  I always justify my purchases in that they are actually reference materials, I can learn something from them, I might need to know this stuff later.  What if the internet goes down and I’m left with only my personal library?  You can recognize a true addict by the excuses they make.  I even buy a lot of used books, many times for such low prices that I can’t pass up the good deal.  (See what I mean?)

So, I’m mostly proud to say that I stuck with my goal to not buy any books last year.  At least until July when I had a little melt down when I took my granddaughter to the bookstore.  That doesn’t mean that I didn’t read; I just resisted buying the books.  I’m fortunate that I have a fairly good library system which supports my reading habit.  Also, I’ve made very good use of the two electronic systems that they belong to where I can borrow nearly anything from books to music, videos to movies.  Too much, actually.

But back to the no buying book resolution, er, umm, goal.  I got back on the wagon…mostly.  I did have a few slip-ups with buying some used books online.  Although I’m very proud to report that I went into the local bookstore to shop for Christmas presents for others and did NOT buy a single book for myself.  That wouldn’t have happened in the previous years.  Magazines don’t count, do they? 

So how did you do with your resolutions last year?  I did manage to add more fruits and veggies to my diet.  And walked more (with the help of the dog.)  Cleaned out a few attics but not all of them.  Some of the other goals are being recycled for 2024.  No sense in getting crazy about improvements, is there?  We’ll just see what I can stick with this year. I haven’t given up ice cream yet.

Resolutions

So how are you doing with your New Year’s resolutions?

I don’t really make resolutions; I make plans and goals.  Maybe there isn’t much real difference but to me there is.  A plan and a goal sets a direction.  A resolution is just a wish.

One of my favorite blogs is Raptitude by David Cain.  He has tried a number of experiments which he discusses here.  These are often in the form of mini resolutions.

Books, my not-so-secret addiction

But this year he suggests not starting any new project or buying new toys or books,  but using what you’ve got.  I don’t know about you, but I’m a real sucker for the next new book, the new tool, what have you.  But if you’re anything like me, you know deep in your soul that you have “enough.”  Really!

This past summer I cleaned out our big chest freezer before we started storing all of the summer’s produce.  It is now full to the brim…again.  I have had many talks with my husband about using what we have before we buy more stuff, even if it’s on sale!  We’re only two people.  We can’t possibly use all the produce and store specials that we have already.

So check out David’s blog Raptitude. I shared this post on my Facebook but apparently so did a lot of other people.  David was astounded that that he got 19K hits on this post alone.  Must have hit a nerve with a whole bunch of folks.